Exploring MMF threesome fantasy (role play)

The Recipe

Rules of the challenge

Step 1: Get your favorite dildo. (If you can, choose one that can ejaculate to add an extra layer of realism to the fantasy.)

Step 2: Create your scenario together beforehand. Decide who the imagined third person is, how they enter the story, what kind of foreplay you’d like, and which positions or sex practices you’re excited to explore. This way, you won’t have an awkward moment during sex wondering what to do next, and the anticipation of knowing what’s going to happen becomes part of the experience. Before you begin, agree on your boundaries and anything that is completely off-limits so you both feel comfortable throughout the experience.

Step 3: Let the experience unfold naturally. There’s no need to stick rigidly to your plan. Stay curious, communicate throughout, and allow the fantasy to evolve in whatever way feels exciting and comfortable for both of you.

What you need

• A dildo. The more realistic looking, the better! In our challenge video we’re using our brand new “dragon dildo” because we just received it and it’s the only one we had that is kind of realistic and can ejaculate. But if you don’t already own one, we’d recommend choosing a flesh-colored one with an ejaculation feature and a suction cup base so it can stand on its own. We did some research on the best options and we’re adding some recommendations below.
• Fake sperm lube if you want to take things to the next level
• A space with a smooth, flat surface where you can securely attach the dildo with the suction cup(on the floor or on a wall, depending on the positions you’d like to try)
• Pillows if you’re placing it on the floor (or anything else that makes it more comfortable on your knees)
• A pinch of imagination ✨

Realistic Dildo recommendations:

Option 1: 

Doc Johnson

Option 2:

Hismith

Tips

1. Don’t be shy. This isn’t reality, and that’s the whole point. Use this as an opportunity to explore fantasies or scenarios you might never want to experience in real life. What turns you on in a fantasy doesn’t define who you are, so let yourselves explore without judgment.
2. Create the scenario a few days in advance. Knowing what’s coming gives you time to imagine it, build anticipation, and get excited together before the challenge even begins.
3. Stay playful. It’s completely normal to laugh, break character, or improvise. Don’t worry about making it “convincing”, focus on enjoying the experience together.

Rating

What James loved

Imagining a real life MMF threesome is quite intimidating for me, for so many reasons. But I discovered that if I really remove all these mental barriers I have associated with the experience: the potential feelings of jealousy, the fear of being uncomfortable, not knowing how I would feel to see Lola with another man, etc. Then I actually find the concept super hot and exciting. Imagining Lola’s mouth and pussy filled at the same time, seeing her get a creampie and then fucking her afterwards. So many cool ideas that we were able to explore with this challenge and that I would definitely not be comfortable experiencing in real life at the moment. I’m not saying this is as good as an actual threesome. But compared to “regular sex”, this definitely had a unique rush, we were both so excited. I think if you do it right, you pick the right dildo and you set up the right scenario, your mind gets tricked and you can imagine living this experience for real. It’s a fantastic way to play with what is a very intimidating idea in a very safe and comfortable way. I’d 100% recommend this to any couple that are considering a MMF threesome. This should actually be mandatory practice before going into the real thing. I think exploring the idea in this way gives you a lot of insights into what you’d be comfortable or not comfortable with and it gives you a taste of what the experience could feel like.

What Lola loved

I was so surprised with this challenge, because it made me discover a new fantasy I never ever suspected I had, which is playing with cum.

I already knew I loved facials or James ejaculating on different parts of my body, but I’d never really been interested in playing with it. I think that’s partly because it usually happens at the very end, after I’ve already had my orgasm. But here, we had access to “unlimited” ejaculations, and it kind of “unlocked” something in me. It felt both naughty and empowering at the same time, and we liked it (both) so much that we decided to make that part of the scenario such a central element in our challenge video.

I also loved that it let us explore the idea of a threesome while keeping it entirely in the realm of fantasy. To me, that’s a much safer way to discover whether the idea genuinely turns you on before involving a real third person, which, especially with another man, feels like a huge emotional and vulnerable step. I’d honestly recommend this challenge to any couple who’s curious about that fantasy but isn’t sure whether they actually want to experience it in real life. It feels like a really gentle first step.

I also really love these kinds of challenges because I feel like, especially in a long-term relationship, our imagination is one of our most powerful erotic tools. I have to say that playing with it in this scenario, especially with the addition of dirty talk, was really, really exciting for me. It felt different from our usual sex, and it made me realize that there really is no limit to what you can imagine. If you truly use your imagination and don’t let shame or taboos get in the way, I think it would actually be VERY hard to ever get bored in bed.