Doggy in front of a mirror

The Recipe

Rules of the challenge

Step 1: Find a mirror and place it facing your bed, couch, or anywhere you feel comfortable.
Step 2: Take as much time as you need to warm up, then get into the doggy style position facing the mirror.
Step 3: Intentionally keep looking at the reflection in the mirror. Try to witness yourselves from the outside and experience a perspective you don’t usually get to see.

What you need

• A mirror big enough for both of you to see yourselves full-length
• A stable place to put the mirror. You don’t want to place it somewhere unstable and have it fall on you during the experience.
• Lube if you enjoy using it, and any toys you’d like to include before or during the challenge.

Tips

1. Don’t forget clitoral stimulation while in doggy style (self stimulation or have partner do it)
2. Take some time to find the most comfortable position and angle! Use pillows under the hips for support if needed, experiment with different back arches and leg positions, and adjust until you find what feels best.
3. For her: don’t be shy and dare to put on a show: arch your back, be playful, toss your hair…
4. If you are comfortable with talking during sex, commenting on what you see in the mirror can be super hot (Him for example: “I love how you look in that position” “Look at me while I fuck you like this”, etc)

Are you curious to see how it went for us?

Watch the video of us taking on this challenge here.

Rating

What James loved

The view I get in doggy is always fantastic and one of the best things about the position for me. But being able to see both of us together in the mirror, being able to see Lola’s face and reactions to how I was moving or fucking her, was just so hot and took the experience to the next level.
Doggy style is probably one of my favorite positions, but sometimes I feel like it’s less “close and intimate” than other positions, there’s a lot of distance between the bodies. The mirror almost fixes that because I was able to make eye contact and connect with Lola through the reflection.

Why Lola loved

This is definitely a challenge where you’re going to feel “exposed,” and that’s exactly why I loved it so much, because it’s one of my kinks.
Now, I think this experience can feel very vulnerable for some people and completely natural for others. It really depends on your relationship with your body, your level of confidence, how you deal with shyness, shame, and intimacy in general… But for me, it felt like I was made for this kind of experience!! I guess that’s also part of the reason why we make videos haha. I’ve always loved watching James and I together, but I usually only get to see that perspective afterward through our videos. Being able to witness it in real time was suuuper exciting!