A (modern) love story

From strangers to lovers to adult content creators.
2020
Algarve, Portugal

Will you be my... surf coach?

It’s the summer of 2020, and for completely different reasons we somehow both landed in Portugal. I was visiting family while Lola was just on a regular holiday trip.
The pandemic then turned what was supposed to be weeks into months. Did the world stop so we could meet?

South Portugal is a fantastic destination for surfers, which I wasn’t. And with all the restrictions and lockdowns back then, being out in the ocean seemed more and more appealing as weeks passed.
I started looking at a couple of Surf Schools / Camps, but for some reason never actually signed up.
But a few weeks later, while meeting a friend, she mentioned that she’d just met a cool French surfer girl that offered to take her for a lesson.

I asked if I could join them, she said yes. Can you guess who that tall, blonde, beautiful surfer friend turned out to be..?
2021
Cadiz, Spain

The first sextape

Long story short, Lola and I became lovers. A couple of months after that, once the borders opened again, we started traveling together. A road trip to Northern Spain in Lola’s old Skoda Octavia. First, A Coruña and the charming coast of Galicia, then heading south to Cadiz. After a random conversation about the merits of filming yourself during sex (I had some previous experience), Lola became increasingly more curious about what it would be like.
Note that at the time we were far from having the sex life we have today, Lola was a bit too self conscious about her body and I had yet to understand how to truly sync to her rhythm to please her.
Days passed, and after many more discussion, we decided to give it a try. We setup our camera on a tripod in front of our AirBnb couch, hit record, and let things unfold. The experience was intimidating, even awkward at times, but also freeing, exciting and strangely addicting.
“ That first video was pivotal to our lives. At that moment, we fell in love with the process of creating as well as sharing beautiful films that capture the sexual connection, emotions and small life moments that make our relationship so special to us. Today this is actually our full time “job”! We get to travel the world while making these beautiful videos, and take you along with us.”
2022
Sri Lanka

The sex was ‘ok’

I do believe that there is a level of natural sex compatibility when two people start having sex, we just didn’t get lucky. 
But that, in the end, turned out to be a blessing. Instead of starting at a hundred and then have routine slowly erode our intimacy to zero. We started to zero and worked our way to a hundred.
And at the time we didn’t even know that we were “working” on anything. We just enjoyed filming our sex life, which that lead us to talk about it a lot. Filming and sharing on OnlyFans professionally meant that we had to be somewhat consistent. We had weeks of great libido when we would have sex almost everyday and so that was easy. But we also had weeks where we didn’t really feel like it. So we analyzed, we learned, we improved, we shared feedback, we improved lifestyle elements (diet, workouts, sleep, etc), again and again.
Today we realized that, as strange as it might sound, we have our porn “career” to thank for our blossoming sex life. We’ve learned more in 4 years than most couple will in 30 years of regular partnership.
2023
Prague, Czechia

A superpower

We’re definitely biased...
...but we would say that sex is at the heart of everything. It is the ultimate connection between two people, you’re never as vulnerable as you are when making love, never as fulfilled. When done right, it’s a simple act that that recharges you instead of depleting you. Boosts your confidence when going out to face the world instead of eroding it. Deepens the emotional bond with your partner instead of inviting doubt and eventually resentment.
Most people see their daily lives and sex lives as separate. We think they are intertwined, that one impacts the other. For better or worse. When the sex started improving for Lola and I, the rest of the relationship changed as well. We felt closer, happier, more fulfilled and understood, seen.
Today we hope to share all these things with other couples. Everything that we’ve learned (and are still learning) on our journey to incredible sex.

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