When it comes to porn, the internet often delivers the same verdict: Porn is bad for you. You’ll hear claims that it’s addictive, unrealistic, or makes you feel guilty. But in our hyper-connected world, where information flows freely, the idea that porn will disappear is unrealistic—especially for younger generations who turn to the web for answers about sex. Unfortunately, those answers can be misleading or flat-out wrong.
So, we asked ourselves: Can we save porn?
Can we create porn that’s healthier, more authentic, and accurately represents what good sex should look like?
As a couple and creators of adult content, we’ve encountered many challenges. Truthfully, our sex life was mediocre in the beginning, but creating porn became a catalyst for transforming it into something much more fulfilling. If porn can improve our sex life, why can’t it do the same for others? Here’s what we’ve learned about making porn healthier:
People want to know who they’re watching, if they’re enjoying it, and why they’re making content. For us, transparency means being honest with our audience—sharing our motivations and ensuring that every piece of content we create is enjoyable and authentic. If we’re not feeling it, we don’t film it. This honesty builds trust, ensuring viewers that the pleasure is real.
Curated, highly-polished content often presents an unrealistic view of sex. This is especially harmful in porn. We aim to keep things genuine, both in front of and behind the camera, without altering our natural sex life for the sake of views. Real sex, not performative, is what creates healthier and more enjoyable content. We’re responsible for showing what loving, authentic intimacy looks like.
Porn shouldn’t just be about sex; it should reflect connection. By sharing our daily lives alongside our sex life, we build a deeper bond with our audience. Viewers can relate to us, which makes the intimate scenes more meaningful. When porn becomes only about bodies and sex, it often pushes creators toward increasingly extreme content. By slowing down, focusing on real connection, we produce porn that doesn’t need to be outrageous to be satisfying.
The Sex Vlogs are our attempt at blending all these elements into the most exciting form of adult content we could think of. We sat down and thought:
"If you could create the perfect porn video to watch, what would it look like?"
Instantly we knew: the perfect blend of YouTube vlogs and homemade sex videos. Think travel meets adventure meets porn.
It starts just like your usual vlog: we're in Costa Rica, taking you along as we explore the jungle on our ATV or as we go for our early sunrise surf sessions. But as we get back home to take a shower together and things get heated, the camera keeps rolling!
Wether in books or movies, the sex scene in itself isn't really the exciting part, it's everything around it. It's what you've learned about the characters, their shared past, maybe the tension created by the storyline up until that point.
Porn is no different: our Sex Vlogs are by far our subscribers' favourite series, especially for couples looking to watch something together.
Can we create porn that has a positive impact on your (sex) life?
We believe we can! Feel free to check out our videos on OnlyFans or Keendom if you're curious about this new format.
One of the most common questions we receive is: Why do you still wear condoms if you’ve been in a committed, monogamous relationship for four years? It’s understandable—many people assume that once a couple is exclusive, condoms become unnecessary. But for us, the answer is a little more complex.
Like many couples, we experimented with different contraceptive methods. I (Lola) started with the pill, but within two weeks, I realized I was forgetting to take it almost every day. That clearly wasn’t going to work for me, so I switched to a contraceptive implant. It was supposed to be a convenient, worry-free option, but over time, I noticed a shift in my personality. I wasn’t exactly depressed, but life felt... muted. The colors weren’t as bright, my emotions felt dulled, and I just didn’t feel like myself anymore.
After doing some research, I learned more about the effects of hormonal birth control on mood, personality, and even partner preference. Some studies suggest that hormonal contraception can influence who you're attracted to—and even change your perception of your partner when you stop taking it. That idea freaked me out.
We also prioritize our health and try to be mindful of what we put in our bodies, so the idea of taking synthetic hormones for years on end just didn’t sit right with us. Ultimately, we decided hormonal birth control wasn’t for me, which left us with only one reliable, non-hormonal option: condoms.
The second question we get is: If condoms are your only form of contraception, how do you sometimes go without them?
The answer is simple: we use fertility awareness-based methods (FAM). Over the years, I’ve tracked my menstrual cycle closely and learned that my cycle is very regular—typically 28 days, sometimes 27 or 29. Because of this, I can predict my ovulation window fairly accurately.
We follow a conservative approach to natural family planning: we have unprotected sex only during the days when pregnancy is highly unlikely (days 1-8 and days 19-28 of my cycle). During my fertile window (around days 9-18), we always use condoms. This method requires consistency and attention to detail, but it has worked for us for four years.
For those considering fertility tracking, there are additional tools to increase accuracy, like tracking basal body temperature, monitoring cervical mucus, or using cycle-tracking apps. However, this method isn’t for everyone, and if your cycle is irregular, it may not be reliable. Always consult a doctor before relying on FAM as your primary method of contraception.
One thing we’ve come to appreciate about using condoms is that it makes our “condom-free” week feel extra special. Since we use condoms most of the month, the time when we don’t feels like a treat—it’s almost like a little celebration of intimacy. Instead of seeing condoms as an inconvenience, we see them as a way to break routine and add variety to our sex life.
Many men resist using condoms in long-term relationships, claiming they don’t feel as good. But what often gets overlooked is how much the responsibility for contraception tends to fall on women. Hormonal birth control has side effects—some mild, some severe—but it’s something women are expected to endure so that men don’t have to wear a thin piece of latex.
We believe real masculinity includes taking responsibility for your partner’s well-being. If wearing a condom means your partner doesn’t have to deal with potential health risks, isn’t that a small price to pay? We hope to see a mindset shift where men are more willing to share the responsibility of contraception, rather than leaving it solely to their partners.
We know our approach isn’t the norm, and we understand why most couples opt out of condoms once they’re in a committed relationship. But for us, prioritizing health, maintaining intimacy, and sharing contraceptive responsibility makes condoms the best option.
We’d love to hear your thoughts! If you’re in a long-term relationship, what contraception method do you use? And guys—would you consider wearing condoms even in a serious relationship?
Let us know in the comments!
If there's one thing we've learned from being online creators, it's that a few topics always spark heated debates—religion, politics, and facials. Yes, facials. We had no idea this would be such a divisive subject until we posted a video featuring one. Some people were shocked, others disapproved, and a few even questioned our dynamic as a couple. That reaction made us curious: why is this act so controversial? So, we did what any responsible couple would do—we turned to Reddit for research. Here’s what we found, along with our own take on the three biggest myths about facials.
One of the most common misconceptions is that facials are only enjoyable for men. As a woman, I (Lola) can confidently say that’s not true. I love facials. It’s honestly something that turns me on, and before this conversation, I never even thought of it as controversial. It’s not about being passive or submissive—it's about feeling sexy, desired, and connected to James in a very intimate way.
I remember reading a comment from a woman who said that watching her partner reach that level of pleasure and having him share that moment with her made her feel incredibly sexy. That resonated with me. There’s something about knowing that you are the focus of your partner’s excitement, that he’s looking at you in that moment and completely lost in pleasure—that’s hot.
From James’ perspective, it’s not just about the physical act but also about feeling fully accepted. Some men described facials as a form of deep acceptance—where a woman is not just tolerating their pleasure but embracing it. That makes a lot of sense to us. Of course, for some, there’s a dominant/submissive element to it, and that’s totally fine too! But the idea that it’s only for men? That’s just not true.
One of the reasons some people, both men and women, feel uncomfortable with facials is the idea that they’re degrading to women. We totally get why some might see it that way—after all, mainstream porn often portrays facials in a way that feels more about power dynamics than mutual pleasure. But that’s not the only way to experience it.
For us, facials are about trust and intimacy. It’s something we both actively enjoy, not something that’s “done to” one of us. I (Lola) don’t feel degraded at all. In fact, it’s empowering. The way I see it, I’m choosing to receive something that brings James pleasure, and that choice makes it something I own, rather than something that’s being imposed on me.
Like anything in sex, mindset matters. If you go into it thinking, I’m letting my partner do this to me, it can feel passive. But if you approach it as I want this, this excites me, and I enjoy seeing my partner’s pleasure, it becomes an act of mutual enjoyment. Sex should never feel like one person is taking while the other is giving up something. It should be an exchange, and facials can absolutely be part of that dynamic when both people are on board.
This was one myth we actually had to do some research on, and the truth surprised us! Many people assume facials only exist because of modern porn, where they’re used as a very visual way to show male pleasure. But facials have actually been around for a long time. We found references to them in books from hundreds of years ago, and there was no indication that they were considered taboo back then.
In fact, it seems like facials only became controversial because of how porn changed our perception of sex. Instead of seeing them as a natural part of intimacy, they started to be associated with the power dynamics often depicted in adult films. But in reality, people have been enjoying facials long before porn made them a mainstream visual.
At the end of the day, facials—like any sexual act—are all about personal preference. They’re not for everyone, and that’s completely okay. But if you’ve never considered them because you thought they were just for men, or because you assumed they had to be degrading, maybe it’s time to rethink those ideas. For us, facials are fun, intimate, and something that strengthens our connection as a couple.
One last piece of advice—if you do try facials, be careful with your eyes! Getting cum in your eye hurts. If it happens, use eye drops immediately, or you’ll end up with a very red eye for the rest of the day. And yes, people will know what you’ve been up to.
What do you think? Have you had a different experience with facials? Do you agree with these myths, or is there another perspective we haven’t considered? Let us know in the comments—we love discussing these topics and hearing your thoughts!
